Where’s Tim?

As is so often the case I’ve been notably absent from the blogosphere. I have been doing a few interesting bits and pieces though.

- Baby business is coming along well. The beautiful Jay is 36 weeks today so the little man (Tuss) is due to arrive any time in the next 4 weeks.
- I’ve started a new job. I’m working at Urban Seed as a Youth and Schools Coordinator which is pretty great.
- Loam continues on. We’ve been having dinner on Sundays and worship on Wednesdays as always. We’ve had a few interesting chats lately about our commitment to each other and the group, what church is and our role in issues like reconciliation, mission, etc.
- Community connections continue to grow. I’ve been doing my best to continue to meet and spend time with my neighbours here in Preston. Some weeks I do better than others, but there are some great relationships growing all the same.
- I continue to study at ACOM. After this semester I’ll have 3 units left to get my Bachelor of Theology. Currently I’m doing a personal formation subject and a unit called Cross-Cultural Ministry, interesting stuff.
- I’ve just finished reading Church Without Walls which was a great read and certainly worth a look. Apparently it’s a bit of a classic but I hadn’t even heard of it before I started a subject that it was required reading for.
- I’ve also been following a series on Jesus Creed called Keys of the Kingdom which is a biblical exploration of the kingdom of God, very helpful.

So anyway, that’s where I’ve been lately.

Shaped by our communities

I was reading a post called Ecclesial Dreamer on the Money over at Backyard Missionary earlier today and they are having a great discussion about issues such as what makes a ‘good’ church and why churches should be counter cultural, but what really caught my eye was a comment about how our communities shape us.

Hamo wrote,

The group of people we choose to align ourselves with will give form to our identity and when it comes to a faith context the church we choose to be a part of will play a significant influence in our own formation.

I’ve always thought this was true, but more and more I’m convinced that it is a piece of wisdom we need to heed and encourage others to listen to. In a world where experience is seen as a key to truth I’ve noticed that people tend to throw themselves into relationships and contexts so that they might be able to explore something new. While on one hand I think this is a great idea, it’s also a dangerous one. These relationships and contexts might open up new experiences, but given the power the communities that we are a part of have on us we need to be wise and critical of their influence on us.

My concern is not that people join communities or create relationships so that they might have new experiences but more that they do so at the cost of the other relationships and communities that help them stay true to who they are. I’ve seen too many young adults jump from group to group in search of new experiences and consequently lack a depth and accountability in their relationships. Or they become excited about the prospect of a new job/hobbie that they love and consequently neglect or leave the other communities that have shaped them into the person they are. In too many cases I have seen these people come to a point of crisis where they have been influenced in ways they never intended to be and don’t know their way back.

The wisdom that our communities shape our identity and formation needs to be something that we live by and mature into if we are to remain radical disciples of Christ in a diverse and challenging world.

Cut to the Chase - Lee Jackson, Baz Gascoyne & Friends

When I arrived in Hamilton I saw this book on my friend Bruach’s shelf behind the bar in his bar. It took me a couple of days to churn through it and I have to say it was pretty good. I’m usually pretty harsh on Christian books, mostly I find I’m just reading a lot of lightweight crap that could have been said in a few pages rather than 200. Thank God, this wasn’t like that at all. It was great to have a Christian book aimed at blokes, that didn’t take itself too seriously and that was really honest. It addresses the usual suspects that guys need to think about and does a pretty good job of it, but I was really impressed that they branched out into subjects like dealing with disabilities (specifically autism), living missionally and even the place of Christian comedy. It’s not the heaviest book you’re going to come across but for guys who want to follow Jesus it’s a really good read.

Off to Hamilton

Well Jay and I are going to be spending January in the fine town of Hamilton, Victoria. I’m not sure what that will mean with regards to my return to blogging. Potentially I could do more of it or maybe none at all. I guess we’ll see.


Whose standards do we seek to hold each other to?

I’ve been thinking a lot about the fact that people are at different points in their journey towards Jesus. Even people I have similar values to will make different decisions to me at times. But I have noticed a tendency for us to be frustrated when people don’t meet the standards we have for ourselves.

I noticed it in myself first. I would become disappointed and then frustrated when people would make choices I didn’t agree with. I found myself withdrawing and even feeling anger when people who I was in relationship with behaved in ways that I wouldn’t myself. After a while I realised that this was damaging my relationships, giving me more stress and certainly not helping my objective of encouraging others to move towards Jesus.

After I saw it in myself I began to realise how common it was in others. Particularly when you have a group that has some goals and ideas about what it wants to be like or achieve, this kind of conflict seems very common.

Recently I sent an email to the members of Loam encouraging them to consider the year ahead and make some choices about their level of commitment.

Over the last few months it has become increasingly clear to me that if we are to function well as a group we need to know what to expect from each other. In the absence of an opportunity to understand what we can expect from others we tend to default to assuming that they are aspiring to meet the standards/commitments that we hold for ourselves. While this seems to be the common approach, I’m not convinced it is the wisest and so have been thinking it would be very useful for us to take the opportunity to make clear exactly what we can expect from each other.

I mean this in a very practical sense. How regularly can we expect you to come to worship gatherings? How regularly can we expect you to come to Sunday dinners? Are you interested in being involved in events or activities beyond our two regular gatherings for the week? I think answers to these kinds of questions will limit our levels of frustration, because we will know what to expect, but also allow us to keep each other accountable to the commitments we have set for ourselves.

For this process to work and be healthy it must be done in a spirit of grace and love. It cannot be about judgement or creating hierarchies within our community. We must realise that while we journey together we are at different stages of life and faith and that that doesn’t make anyone better or more important than anyone else.

To this end I’d really like to encourage you all to take some time to reflect about the year ahead, to think about how much time and energy you are going to have and to realistically assess how much of that you are willing to invest in Loam. It’d be great if when we got together in February we could share with one another about our choices for the year ahead. This way we will be able to get a sense for what we can expect in the coming year and commit to helping each other achieve what we’ve aspired to for ourselves.

As well as the decrease in anxiety and frustration I am very much looking forward to the potential benefits in the area of accountability. I think Christians struggle to keep each other accountable, partly because it is hard to confront one another but also because we don’t have a clear understanding of what people really expect from themselves. A clearly articulated commitment with permission given to keep each other accountable could make a great difference.

Life’s ups and downs

So much has happened in my little world since I posted that I hardly know where to begin.

Jay and I no longer work at Northern Community Church of Christ. During the year it became clear that there were some significant differences in leadership and ministry philosophy and we decided that it would be better if we weren’t organisationally connected. So Loam is no longer a part of Northern and we are no longer on the staff there. However there is still lots of connection points as many people that we are in community with are involved in different programs or congregations that Northern runs. Obviously it is not the scenario that we all first imagined when we started up the relationship with Northern, but I think it is the healthiest place for us now.

The other comment that I want to make is that the relationship was not a waste of time. The church must experiment and take risks. Some things that we try will work and others won’t, some may even just work for a time, but we have to be willing to try new things if we are going to be faithful.

Since May I have been working with one of the guys in our church who runs a Landscape Construction business. I’ve been labouring 2-3 days a week and spending the rest of the week with people in the community or studying. Jay has gone back to doing 3 days of nursing and spending the rest of her time on either her new age bible project or with people in the community.

In other news we are going to have a baby. While we are really excited there is also concern as we have found out that he has Down’s Syndrome and a serious heart defect which will require open heart surgery sometime in the first six months of his life. So next year is shaping up to be very full.

The Loam community continues to meet and share life together. We are planning a time of reflection and discussion in February as it is around 2 years since we began. We still have the community dinner in our house every Sunday and we meet for worship on Wednesdays. We have developed several significant relationships with our neighbours which provide us with more than enough opportunities to love, serve and witness.

we can.Be - Who Says?

I flogged this from we can.be but now can’t find the original link.

You say: “Nobody really loves me”
God says: I love you
(John 3:1 6 & John 3:34)

You say: “I feel all alone”
God says: I will never forsake you
(Hebrews 13:5)

You say: “I’m afraid”
God says: Don’t have a spirit of fear
(II Timothy 1:7)

You say: “I’m always worried”
God says: Cast all your cares on me
(I Peter 5:7)

You say: “I can’t go on”
God says: My grace is sufficient
(II Corinthians 12:9 & Psalm 91:15)

You say: “I’m too tired”
God says: I will give you rest
(Matthew 11:28-30)

You say: “I’m not smart enough”
God says: I give you wisdom
(I Corinthians 1:30)

You say: “I can’t manage”
God says: I will meet your needs
(Philippians 4:19)

You say: “I can’t figure things out”
God says: I will direct your steps
(Proverbs 3:5- 6)

You say: “It’s impossible”
God says: All things are possible
(Luke 18:27)

You say: “I’m not able”
God says: I am able
(II Corinthians 9: 8)

You say: “I can’t do it”
God says: You can do all things
(Philippians 4:13)

You say: “It’s not worth it”
God says: It will be worth it
(Roman 8:28 )

You say: “I can’t forgive myself”
God says: I forgive you
(I John 1:9 & Romans 8:1)

Archbishop of Canterbury Dr Rowan Williams critique of the use of violence.

The archbishop also criticised the use of violence as a political solution. He said it could too easily be “a quick discharge of frustration. It serves you. It does not serve the situation. Wherever people turn to violence what they do is temporarily release themselves from some sort of problem, but they help no one else. A lot of the pressure around the invasion of Iraq was ‘we’ve got to do something, then we’ll feel better.’ That’s very dangerous”.

Something about the way he puts this makes a lot of sense to me. I also feel that it’s so obviously not something that is consistent with God’s character given the selfish nature of it.

NT Wright - Emperors and Angels - A Reflection On Christmas

Isaiah 9.2–7; Luke 2.1–20a sermon at the Midnight Eucharist, Christmas Eve 2006

by the Bishop of Durham, Dr N. T. Wright

Sing a song of Christmas, of emperors and angels;
Sing a song of Christmas, of darkness now past;
Sing a song of starlight, of shepherds and of mangers;
Sing a song of Jesus, of peace come at last.

And don’t we just want it? You can’t hear the song of the angels, or the prophecy of Isaiah, in today’s dangerous and chaotic world without thinking, with a sigh, ‘Yes! That’s what we’d like as our Christmas present: all the multiple debts, all the hard and unrewarded labour, all the soldiers’ boots and the bloodstained clothing – let’s do away with the lot of them!’ But, like the angels going away into heaven, the vision fades; and we go back to thinking of Christianity as a private religion, as a once-or-twice-a-year thing, all right for old ladies and young children but not much use when it comes to the real problems we face in the real world. And though I (and I hope you) have been thrilled by what the Archbishop of Canterbury was saying from Bethlehem last week, lighting a flickering candle of hope in that dark place, we hear the reassurances of our politicians and with a sinking heart we wonder if anything will ever change, as the bland lead the blind and all of them end up in the ditch. I’ll tell you something: if it was our country that was reduced to chaos by someone else’s inept and money-driven warmongering, we’d be getting to grips with the promises and prophecies of peace quite quickly. We wouldn’t be content simply to read Isaiah 9 at Christmas and forget about it for the rest of the year. We’d want to know, How can we turn this into action? What have we got to say, at Christmas or any other time, to the rulers of this world?

Well, you may say, I didn’t expect to be told about empires and money and wars when I came to church tonight. I expected to hear lovely things that would make me feel good inside. But that’s the trouble with how we’ve treated Christmas these many years: we’ve screened out the emperors, and so we’ve missed the point of the angels. The Christmas story, like Isaiah’s prophecy, isn’t about an escape from the real world of politics and economics, of empires and taxes and bloodthirsty wars. It’s about God addressing these problems at last, from within, coming into our world – his world! – and shouldering the burden of authority, coming to deal with the problems of evil, of chaos and violence and oppression in all their horrible forms. And only when we look hard at those promises and come to grips with what they really mean are we able to grasp the real comfort and joy that Christmas does truly provide. Otherwise we are purchasing a spurious private comfort at the inflated cost of allowing the rest of the world to continue in its misery.

You see this clearly in Luke’s story of the birth of Jesus, which we heard a moment ago. Luke takes the trouble to tell us about the Roman emperor Augustus, and his desire to take a census of more or less the whole known world. This isn’t just background information, or local colour to spice up the story. Empires, censuses and taxes were hot topics in the Middle East in the first century. When we have a census, we just fill in a boring form and send it off. They’re going to tax us anyway. Every time they had a census there were riots and people got killed: censuses then raised the sharp and dangerous questions of who runs the world, how it’s run, who profits by it all, who gets crushed in the process, and, perhaps above all, when is it all going to change? And what should we be doing about it? Luke has placed his story of Jesus’ birth and the angels’ song within this everyday story of Imperial behaviour because he wants us to know that Jesus’ birth is not an invitation to a private religion into which we can escape and feel cosy, but a summons to us, as it was to his first followers, to sign on under his authority, to celebrate the birth of the Wonderful Counsellor, the Mighty God, the Everlasting Father, the Prince of Peace, and to work under that authority for the growth of his promised kingdom of endless peace, of justice and righteousness. And, my friends, we have made a singularly bad job of all this of late, and it’s time to get back on track.

Ah but, you say, it’s always been like this. The politicians have always got it wrong, the church has always been muddled, and it’ll never be any different. Not so. This next year we shall celebrate the 200th anniversary of the ending of the slave trade, as a result of the faithful and patient work of William Wilberforce and his colleagues, who set themselves to live and work under the authority of the Prince of Peace and thereby to deal with the most obvious moral and social problem of the day. Wilberforce put his hand to this task in 1787, and for twenty years he banged on about it, bringing bill after bill to Parliament only to see them thrown out, until at last in 1807 he succeeded. But of course he didn’t stop there; he went on with tireless zeal to campaign, usually in the teeth of the political correctnesses of his day, to urge the values of the kingdom of God and the reign of the Prince of Peace upon the country and Parliament, in season and out. For a further twenty-six years he worked to outlaw not just the slave trade but slavery itself, until in 1833, as he lay on his deathbed, Parliament passed the bill which got rid of the scandal once and for all. My friends, it can be done. There were massive vested interests ranged against Wilberforce, but by prayer and faith and sheer hard work he and his friends took the gospel forwards into the real world. It’s always costly, always tiring, it always takes everything we’ve got; but this is what it looks like when the song of the angels is heard and obeyed, when the power of the emperors is challenged and confronted, and when the Prince of Peace is celebrated and proclaimed in the middle of it all.

Tragically, after Wilberforce’s death there grew up the extraordinary idea, driven by the self-interested ideologies that are still firmly running the western world, that the gospel of Jesus Christ was not about emperors and angels, but about a private spirituality and the promise of an escape hatch out of this world altogether: ‘fit us for heaven, to live with thee there’, instead of ‘his kingdom shall increase continually’. In that picture, the angels cease to be the authoritative messengers who come to announce that heaven is taking over the running of earth, and become instead what you see on a thousand gooey calendars: the ethereal background music for an escapist spirituality which leaves the empires of the world free to do their own thing. And with that Luke’s story, and Isaiah’s prophecy, have been emasculated. It’s time Christmas got its bits and bobs back, its emperors and angels and its promise of real justice and real peace. The zeal of the Lord of hosts, says Isaiah, will do this. Yes, and the way God’s zeal goes to work is through the cheerful and prayerful zeal of God’s people.

Here is the great and tragic irony of the present Middle Eastern situation. Millions of people in Iraq and elsewhere in the Middle East now firmly believe that what Britain and America have been doing there is some kind of Christian crusade. It isn’t. It’s what happens when Christianity retreats into being a private religion and allows the real world to be run by smiling but cynical pragmatists. Yes, I know, people will tell us to shut up, to concentrate on saving souls and not to worry about the issues of state. But that misses the whole point of Christmas. Christmas is about God acting in the real world. It’s about people like Wilberforce – people who go out into the world and make a difference in the name of Jesus. It’s about people like you. I am praying that God will call several of you here tonight not only to trust him for yourselves, to come to know him in and through his incarnate Son, but also to put your shoulder to the wheel, to work in prayer and faith, and social and political skill, to carry forward the work of the kingdom that was launched at the first Christmas. We need you; we need you both in the ordained ministry and in the active lay work of the church; and we need to stay focussed on the task.

That’s why I’m glad that in a few moments we’re going to sing that great hymn ‘It came upon the midnight clear’. It catches the meaning of Luke 2 better than most of the much-loved but essentially escapist carols. All except, that is, for the last verse. Look at it and feel free to correct it in your copy! ‘For lo, the days are hastening on, by prophet-bards foretold . . .’ and then, leaving behind the Christian hope and opting for an ancient pagan superstition, it says ‘when, with the ever-circling years, comes round the age of gold’. Well, if you think the ages go round in circles and every so often you get a Golden Age when everything is peaceful and happy, think again; if that were the case, why should we work for it? Why not just shrug your shoulders and wait? That’s Qué Será Será theology – whatever will be, will be. That wasn’t good enough for William Wilberforce; it wasn’t good enough for God, and Christmas proves it. Something needs to be done. Try singing this instead:

For lo, the days are hastening on,
by prophets seen of old,
When, by the Spirit’s mighty power
Arrives the time foretold:
When Peace shall over all the earth
Its promised splendours fling,
And the whole world give back the song
Which now the angels sing.

(I’m going to ask the Succentor if we can have those words printed next year, but feel free to sing them tonight anyway.) The point is that God will complete the victory gained by Jesus, and that the Spirit is already at work to anticipate that final day. And the way the Spirit does this is quite simple: through you and me.

So where can you start? We can’t all be Wilberforces, we can’t all run political campaigns, we can’t all lead great reforms. No; but we can pray, we can watch, and we can listen. We can, in fact, inhabit Luke’s story of Jesus’ birth right where we are. We can pray in love and devotion before the Christ-child, trusting that his new kingdom of peace and justice will come to birth within us and through us. But then we can watch for the empires of the world, the Augustus Caesars of our day: we can keep our eyes open for where the powers that run the world are crushing the little people who live on our street, in our town, in our local hospitals or prisons. And we can listen for the song of the angels. It will come in surprising ways, as it always does. God doesn’t call everybody in the same way. But if you are learning to love the Christ-child you will find your eyes gradually being opened to what the powers of the world are up to and your ears gradually becoming tuned to the particular song that God’s angels are trying to sing to you, and, more dangerously perhaps, through you. You will discover, in fact, the thing we call vocation: which may be as simple as volunteering to work a couple of evenings in a soup kitchen, or helping run a Traidcraft stall, or writing letters to opinion-formers, or organising prayer vigils and chains, or running a website to raise awareness of key issues – the sorts of things, in fact, granted some different technology, that William Wilberforce and his friends got up to. Every great work begins with little steps; usually it continues with little steps too.

And remember the story of the shepherds and the manger. We are so used to hearing about it – indeed, most of us never use the word ‘manger’ in any other context – that we often forget the point. The shepherds were told something – or thought they were told something – quite ridiculous: that God’s Messiah, God’s only Son, had been born just up the road. Now how on earth are you supposed to believe that? And what on earth could you do about it? Ah, but they were given a sign: you don’t normally find babies in feeding-troughs, but that’s where this one is. And so they went, and they saw, and they believed, and they worshipped. What’s the equivalent for us today? Well, when you worship the Christ-child for yourself, and learn to open your eyes to the empires and your ears to the angels, you may well wonder whether there’s any point in even trying to do anything about it all. It all seems quite ridiculous. And then you may begin to notice places where there are, so to speak, babies in mangers: places where God seems to have been startlingly at work, in a hospice or a prison or a day-care centre or a play-group, in Bible Study groups, in gospel work going forwards among drug addicts and prostitutes, in campaigns about debt and unjust laws and fair trade, whatever it may be. And then: watch for the empires, listen for the angels, worship the Christ-child – and go for it. For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given, and his kingdom shall be established with justice and righteousness from this time forth and for evermore.

oh yeah … blogging

Unfortunately I’ve been quite distracted with life lately to blog. Hopefully I’ll get back to it soon, I guess we’ll see.